Text, Not Sext

The headline for your profile is the next matter of importance. This is where you show your personality. Be original. "Looking For Love" will only get the attention of those who are bulk mailing everyone on the site. A good sugar daddy is not that desperate.

Think of your favorite musician and use one of their lyrics. For example, "Our 1st kiss will go a lil' like this....." This will give the potential sugar daddy a key to your personality. Even if they don't recognize it, a pop lyric is a catchy phrase. It worked for the artist who came up with it and it will work for you.

If you are anti-music, you can just express something unique about yourself, like "Anti-Musician Here", or "I Like Collecting Pinecones - Do You?". Your headline is what is going to make you stand out. There are a lot of pretty faces out there. What makes yours unique? Your personality. Put it in your headline.

Now you are going to need to write a couple of paragraphs. The first one is going to describe you. The second one is going to describe what you are looking for in a sugar daddy. Keep these paragraphs as short and sweet as possible. Just get to the point.

I like to quote my favorite inspirational speakers when describing myself. This connects me to the sugar daddies that can relate to my spiritual personality. You can look up famous quotes about love or fun online and pick one that was said by someone you admire.

When wrting the paragraph, hit 'enter' twice after each sentence. These spaces are going to make it much easier to read.

Mention specific interests. Everyone loves to travel and explore ethnic cuisine. Type something about the gypsies in Spain or how you make the best lasagne. This is specifically about you and it is meant to weed out those with whom you have nothing in common.

NEVER mention sex in your profile. This CLEARLY states that you are a prostitute. Every sugar baby has sex to offer. This does not make you unique.

Sadly, there are women out there who actually believe it when their lover says - You give the best ----. It's not true. They say that to all the women who give them ---- so that they ensure more ---- in the future.

"I give the best ----" is what prostitutes say to collect johns. Please do not be naive enough to think that this is what you have to offer a sugar daddy. All the sugar babies are giving the best ---- and you are not special in this way.

The second paragraph, about what you are seeking, is where you might want to put something like "ltr", "fwb", or "nsa", depending on your preference. And if one of those acronyms actually describes you, then that's really all you have to say. Remember, keep it short and sweet.

If you are looking for something that is a little more than an acronym, you still need to be as brief and specific as possible. Something like "Looking for a short term companion. The only string attached is discretion".

The profile is just the fishing pole. It is not an opportunity to tell your life story. If you have a lot of information to share, put it on your blog, which is linked to your web site. All of that is for reeling the fish in once it has been caught. The profile is the act of casting the rod.

There is a sugar dating site that has a required section to fill out about your allowance. This is a wonderful weeding tool, just like a hoe. ; ) What you put here is very important.

The allowance is where the line is drawn between sugar daddy and john. An allowance is what your sugar daddy is going to give you to cover your monthly expenses. If you want to attract a wealthy sugar daddy, put an allowance of over $5000. If you are happy with a middle class daddy, keep it under $3000. Leaving it "negotiable" may attract johns.

The sugar daddies at this site also have the "budget" option. Anyone who is working with a budget of less than $1000 is a john. The only American households that are maintaining themselves at an income of less than $1000 are those who live in poverty. These johns are preying on welfare moms.

A lot of sugar babies are single mothers who need financial help because they have been abandoned without child support. Churches are there to help if the rent is not getting paid. A sugar daddy is going to help his baby get out of poverty by giving her a $3000 allowance. Having a regular john might get the rent paid, but it will not get you anywhere beyond that. So, just go to church and keep praying that a real sugar daddy comes your way.