Fishing For Love - Intro To Building a Profile

Online dating is like fishing. The typical way to catch a fish is with a fishing pole. You can certainly catch a fish without using a pole, and you can definitely meet people online without a profile. But if you are serious about snagging a sugar daddy in seven days, create a profile.

Creating a profile is even easier than building a web site, especially now that you have a web site to use as a foundation. Even if you never actually refer someone to your site, you have the experience of collecting your thoughts about this topic.

You can use your web site purely as your private notes or as a daily affirmation about your purpose. You can use your web site for whatever purposes suit your needs. It's your web site. It's all yours. Isn't that awesome?

You need to decide where you are going to post your profile, because that is where you will build it. Put "sugar dating site" into a search engine and choose both the first and second sites on the results list. These are the most popular sites for this purpose.

Putting your profile out in a couple of places gives you twice as many options. And just because it is the most popular site about this topic, that doesn't mean that it is the most active for this specific purpose. It could be a popular sugar site because people are just blah, blah, blogging there all day. See how blogging works?

But even though people are blogging there all day, that doesn't mean that the site is worthless. Just remember your reason for being there - to snag a sugar daddy, not to chat about psych meds or whatever randomly gets mentioned on the blog.

My advice - Don't even waste your time with the blog. You have your own site where you can blog with the one person who knows you the best - yourself. Do not allow know-it-all strangers to distract you. These people are very likely under the age of 30, without much experience. They are lonely and they are just seeking attention, not sugar daddies.

In fact, they are probably the same old "no drama! no baggage!" losers from the typical sites who never even leave their homes. Who even knows what gender or age they are, or if they have even lost their virginities. These are strangers. That's all you know. And they exist to help the site make it to the top of the list when topics are put into a search engine. That is their only purpose.

I mean, if you are fishing, are you going to cast your rod into the lake or into a mud puddle?