A Picture Paints A Thousand Words

Online dating sites make building a profile very easy. All you have to do is sign up for the site and follow instructions. Each site has specific guidelines, but there are a few general rules that are pretty universal to all online dating sites.

The main photograph is the most important. This is what pops up when others are searching and it is the immediate first impression. Use a picture that shows your face. It is important to protect your identity, so do something clever.

A lot of sites recommend blurring the shot a little bit, or putting a black bar across your eyes. These are excellent ideas. You can also crop your picture to show just your eyes, or half of your face. You can paint your face like a leopard or something. Whatever you do, make sure that picture shows a very fun side of you.

Smiling is another good recommendation, but one that I do not follow. I like to present myself as more of a seductress, so I use a picture that says, "You know you want it. Are you up for the challenge?" It's all in the eyes, the window to the soul.

I'm not an easy piece, so I make that clear in my profile. The picture I use says that from the start. Those that use the bright smile say, "I am the lonely girl-next-door type." That's great, because that is what a lot of sugar daddies are seeking.

Whoever you are, make sure it is expressed in this picture. Potential sugar daddies are using these pictures (not the profiles) to connect with their type of lady. The main photograph always comes first when making this first impression.

That is exactly what these profiles are - the first impression. There is no way to get around that reality. This is the greatest opportunity you will get when you put your mind towards snagging a sugar daddy. Be very careful not to blow it.

You will be able to post more pictures on your profile. Limit yourself to two (three total, including the main one). More than that is pointless and distracting. Think about what you have to offer your sugar daddy and display it in these two pictures.

Do you have nice curves? Post a picture of you in a bikini. If you have a great ass, then turn around, bend over and take a pic from that view. Beautiful feet? You get the idea.

If your body is unique, but not considered attractive to the average man, do not worry. "To each their own" is the phrase that sums up God's mating plan. There will always be men who will be attracted to you physically, no matter what you look like. And, besides - You are not here to attract the average man. You are here to attract the super sexy, perfect sugar daddy for ~YOU~.

This is all about ~YOU~ and don't ever forget it. This is not about the men. Women are in control of all men/women relationships, unless you choose to be a slave to a master in a DOM/sub agreement.

Men are visual creatures, so these pictures make it really easy for them to know that what they see is what they get. The pictures are there to represent what you look like physically, and that is all. They are not there to show off what kind of car you drive or your love of your pet schit-poo. If you do not want to show off your body, do not post any more pictures besides the main one.

Above all, the main idea expressed in the pictures should be - FUN, FUN, FUN! Keep in mind that you are competing with others and the one thing that every single sugar daddy is seeking is a good time.

Overweight FUN women are going to get picked over the plastic, stoic "do not touch me" model types, every single time. So, keep it light and fluffy, but most importantly, FUN!